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The Greatest Catalyst for Awakening is………… (explained by Adyashanti)

August 30, 2017 // 0 Comments

To think that enlightenment only comes through wonderful experiences is to delude yourself. Yes, there are those cases where someone has a spontaneous awakening, and he or she doesn’t have a lot of karmic tendencies to see through. But that is rare. For most of us, the path to enlightenment is not rosy. We need to acknowledge this, because otherwise we’re only going to let ourselves travel toward that which feels good, that which supports our image of what the path of awakening should be. [...]

Revealed: Why We Are ALL Abusers, Why We Are ALL Victims

November 19, 2015 // 1 Comment

In every personal relationship we will form throughout our lives, there will be a victim and an abuser. The abuser will push and expect this person (the victim) to do what they have always known as the right thing to do until the victim accepts it as truth. Then this victim now becomes the abuser in another tale. When I speak of the role of an abuser, remember we are ALL abusers and we are ALL victims. How can this be? [...]

Why You Really Suffer in Love Relationships

October 31, 2015 // 1 Comment

It has happened to the best of us – we find ourselves completely lost in a love relationship with a miscommunication between our heart and mind. The heart wants to love deeply no matter the circumstances and the mind says “Run while you can!” Questioning yourself and your partner with puzzles like “where did I go wrong?”, “what is different? “, and “what can I do to change things?” The love was there. We both felt it! It was undeniable! So, what is the missing ingredient to every relationship that often eludes people? [...]